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சாக்லேட்டை காட்டிலும் ஒரு குழந்தைக்கு அன்பைக் காண்பிப்பதற்கு இந்தியர்களுக்கு வேறு வழியே இல்லையா

சாக்லேட்டை காட்டிலும் ஒரு குழந்தைக்கு அன்பைக் காண்பிப்பதற்கு இந்தியர்களுக்கு வேறு வழியே இல்லையா

"No mother, eat it soon"

When I entered my home, I asked my mother-in-law to talk to my daughter.

In our Marwari community, we will give more importance to food. Since I am married in a large collective family, discussions about food will never fall.

In the name of showing affection towards me, he will force me to eat more.

If the house does not eat all the meals in the kitchen, he will beg for me to eat and drink. I often tell you not to eat such a delicious meal. My weight increased to 12 kilograms in my first year wedding ceremony.I decided that I can not tolerate this again.

Finally, I started to say to my mother-in-law "I can not." I remembered my weight again and again. Even though it was difficult, I was allowed to eat.

In Marwari community it is called "Manwar." The food must be served until the guests say enough. The food is very high in sugar and fat.

Love for food and love for food!

This tradition went to my people.The grandmother's love was created by giving up the crib, cakes and chocolates.

Forcing your child to eat something they like can be called as overeating. Do not you agree?

When my daughter's grandmother used to eat me, why not you eat me? " She asks.

By the age of six, my child had increased obesity. And seeing my ignorance, the doctor shouted to me.My dear mother and uncle were worrying me.

Soon my daughter was afraid of getting sick .. I began to explain to my child about the negative effects of high sugar diet. I taught how to ruin our body system.

This is a great challenge for me because no one in the family supports me.I portrayed the child Marcuscchi as if I was snatching. Nobody was concerned about her future.

Finally, I was able to convince my daughter.And I condemned the baby not to have a cholesterol food, but I did not know my daughter started chocolate.

With my permission, we came to the conclusion that we had to eat chocolates only on the weekends. This resulted in good change and improvement in her weight and weight. My daughter started telling her "no" for sweets and chocolates.

Different ways to express your love for children

Everyone has a way to express love. Sometimes, it is difficult to understand that such love is not suitable for children.

Reading, for example, can be an activity your child will love doing with you

In these circumstances, we need to teach alternatives to express love. This is why grandparents do not get hurt and the child will get the love from them.

I want to tell all parents, grandparents, friends, and family. There are a lot of ways to show love to children rather than giving them sugar.

Many creative ways to show our love for children:

  • Giving the book
  • Play indoor / outdoor games
  • Teach the values and habits of life
  • General knowledge teaching
  • Supervising home lessons
  • Teaching Bhajans / Sleeks
  • Play with water in summer
  • Sing and sing with them

In today's situation, you should continue to teach about health and weightlifting.

Parents can only change their baby food.

In the end, children are the future of our future, if they do not help them to care for their health at this age, their future will not be healthier. Time is not needed to teach about education.